Clearly I'm not one to be motivating anyone else to take this trek if I'm in need of taking it myself, but Mark Twain is. I think. I don't actually know if he's inspiring to you but this quote was like oh-so-fitting so let's just roll with it, ok? Ok! *brisk hand clap*
A lot of people had questions about how the "Do one thing every day that scares you for 30 days" challenge [which we will call Operation Eleanor and hashtag #OpEleanor] works so I thought I'd elaborate.
Here's the thing: there are no rules, no wrong or right ways of doing it so, basically, it's up to you to take the idea and run with it in your own big way.
The things that 'scare' you don't have to be huge things. They can be small moments like saying something to someone you when you would have normally held your tongue. It could be trying a new food you've always crinkled your nose at. It could be having a conversation or introducing yourself to that person you always see at Starbucks every morning. But you can conquer your bigger fears if you're so inclined. Flying? Skydiving? Snowboarding? Whatever.
These 30 things can be moments you consider very much random and blog-worthy or extremely personal and private. They can be serious, gut-wrenching moments or completely silly and irreverent or even better: a mix of the two. Most importantly, they don't need to be planned out. I have no idea what 30 things I will attempt to face in the month of November. Some will require some thought, yes. Others will find me by chance.
I know the mere idea of a whopping *30* things has got a few people shying away from the challenge. Here's the thing: this is YOUR thing. So, while 30 things is the challenge, even if you only overcome one fear, you've made progress. That's one thing you wouldn't have done before so you win.
Whether you decide to blog about it is completely up to you. Maybe it will be too personal, maybe you don't blog, maybe you will want every one of those 30 things accounted for on this here internet... Your call. You can blog as you go or when the month ends. If you do decide to tweet, Instagram, whatever, hashtag your accomplishments with #OpEleanor. Someone asked me about one of those linky-dinky-doo widgets on this blog so I can link everyone who is doing the challenge together. Yeah, let me figure that out. I'd love that.
I'm going to keep a composition notebook for daily notes and I hope to take photos whenever relevant and possible. I plan on coming back to you in the beginning of December and telling you as much I can -- what I learned, what I did, what the experience taught me, whether I fell short of my goal, etc. and I'd love to hear what you're willing to share too.
For the next 30 days, "...throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor" as Twain said. Or if Twain isn't your style, this one may suite you better:
Let's take life by the balls, shall we? Look out, November.
Yes, this. (I never comment)
Posted by: Gabby | 28 October 2011 at 12:25 AM
I'm so down. Besides November being my birthday month, it's time for this girl to start LIVING.
Posted by: Trista Newton | 28 October 2011 at 07:58 AM
I could just bawl. I've been sitting here all day dying of anxiety over doing the thing I'm going to do tonight ... in a few hours .... You've empowered me ... even though I'm still a little scared - I'mma DOING THIS!
Posted by: Dawn | 28 October 2011 at 12:24 PM
I think it's awesome that you're doing this, especially because you already strike me as such a kick-ass, fearless chick that it intrigues me to think about what things YOU fear of all people.
Posted by: Avitable | 28 October 2011 at 12:53 PM
Adam -- If you only knew. I'm afraid of everything. Every. thing. I'm tired of living that way.
Posted by: Megan, Undomestic Diva | 28 October 2011 at 03:30 PM
Tomorrow it is. Here we go...
Posted by: mrschaos | 31 October 2011 at 03:03 PM
Here ya go:
http://www.chibijeebs.com/2011/11/my-happiness-project-month-4-week-1.html
*gulp*
Posted by: Chibi Jeebs | 01 November 2011 at 10:21 AM
Adam is such a kiss ass.
Cool idea. Glad to see you pursue it.
I used to fear that Tilted Kilt. But you fixed me.
Posted by: the muskrat | 02 November 2011 at 05:25 PM
I'm in, better late than never. Scary thing - speaking up. Shocking, I know. This is the beginning. Thanks for the kick. #OpEleanor
Posted by: SuSaw | 06 November 2011 at 11:08 PM